
Make sense of ghosting & do something about it. The definitive guide to understanding, dealing with and avoiding ghosting backed by real research.

Make sense of ghosting & do something about it. The definitive guide to understanding, dealing with and avoiding ghosting backed by real research.

Make sense of ghosting & do something about it. The definitive guide to understanding, dealing with and avoiding ghosting backed by real research.
What readers are saying
5/5
I thought I was the only one exhausted by the endless cycle of matches, fizzling chats, and ghosting. This book made me feel seen and gave me real strategies to actually change how I show up online.
Tara M.
36
Brooklyn
5/5
This isn’t another fluffy dating book. It’s research-backed, beautifully written, and helped me reframe my entire approach to online dating. I finally feel like I have tools instead of just trauma.
Janelle R.
40
Toronto
5/5
Ghosting used to feel like a personal failure. Now I see it as a symptom of something much bigger. I know how to protect my time and energy without checking out entirely.
Alex D.
33
Austin
5/5
I devoured this book in one sitting. It’s sharp, funny, and deeply validating. If you’ve ever been ghosted, soft ghosted, or ghost-curious, read this.
Morgan L.
29
London
5/5
What I loved most is that it doesn’t just explain why ghosting happens. It shows you how to prevent it, how to cope with it, and how to move forward with clarity. A must-read for anyone navigating the chaos of dating apps.
Elena K.
42
Los Angeles
5/5
I thought I was the only one exhausted by the endless cycle of matches, fizzling chats, and ghosting. This book made me feel seen and gave me real strategies to actually change how I show up online.
Tara M.
36
Brooklyn
5/5
This isn’t another fluffy dating book. It’s research-backed, beautifully written, and helped me reframe my entire approach to online dating. I finally feel like I have tools instead of just trauma.
Janelle R.
40
Toronto
5/5
Ghosting used to feel like a personal failure. Now I see it as a symptom of something much bigger. I know how to protect my time and energy without checking out entirely.
Alex D.
33
Austin
5/5
I devoured this book in one sitting. It’s sharp, funny, and deeply validating. If you’ve ever been ghosted, soft ghosted, or ghost-curious, read this.
Morgan L.
29
London
5/5
What I loved most is that it doesn’t just explain why ghosting happens. It shows you how to prevent it, how to cope with it, and how to move forward with clarity. A must-read for anyone navigating the chaos of dating apps.
Elena K.
42
Los Angeles
Tried and tested techniques that
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for you and build resilience



81%
of online daters have experienced ghosting at least once.
25%
of people have ghosted someone they were dating seriously.
50%
of ghosters said they did it to avoid confrontation or because they didn’t know what to say.
48%
said they were ghosted in a 2022 survey of 1,300 adults.